The Christian faith has always been
a matter of the heart. Our faith is not determined by the approval of any
person—priest, pastor, or parents—or institution. However, our faith is
interwoven into a web of social relationship we call the church family. And, although,
our decisions, in regards to our relationship with Jesus, are generally of
individual concern it is never of individual consequence.
This
rising generation has understood a great truth that many believers have missed
out on previously, namely identity in Christ. What a joy to stand with
confidence[1]
before God knowing that one is fully accepted[2]
as a son or daughter of God;[3]
requirement has fully been paid by Christ,[4]
and it is “no longer I who live, but Christ who lives in me.”[5]
No longer do we stand under condemnation,[6]
but we are fully and completely "saints/holy
ones",[7]
"elect",[8]
"beloved",[9]
and "children of God".[10] However,
over the years I have seen an abuse of this truth. Although, many understand
the reality of their being in relation to Christ they continue to live a sinful
existence. Sin often becomes secondary to identity. Those old judgmental—doom
and gloom—church-time anthems this generation fought to exchange for the
goodness of God has left holiness on the side of the road. However, I see no
biblical precedent in separating adoption or identity from holy living. For
example, the Apostle Paul can, within the same breath, speak of salvation by
grace alone,[11] and its
immediate result of good works and holiness.[12] We must begin to ask, how our identity in
Christ regulates our lifestyle in the world? Our failure to live holy often
originates from hearts that do not understand the detriment of sin or its personal
power.
Jesus, in
Mk 8:42-48, speaks about sin in a fairly grotesque manner. He advises those who
might make another Christian “stumble”[13]
to put a millstone around their neck and jump into a lake. A body with a
millstone tied around the neck can neither be rescued nor their body plucked
from the lake for burial purposes. Jesus’ point is maintained; it is as if this
person never lived, and no trace of their existence remains. Jesus continues,
and indicates that not only is sin against another detrimental, but also sin
against oneself. He employs another extreme metaphorical tactic in explicating
the grievousness of sin. This time he indicates in a three-fold (hand, foot,
eye) manner that if any part of the body causes one to sin they should hack-off
or gauge out that body part. Jesus’ point is clear enough; if we do not cut off
the limb from the spreading sin, it will overcome us. Jesus is concerned that
wrong action, when it has overcome a person, will lead them to “hell” (Mk 9:43,
45, 57). Sin, in this verse has the ability to start small, only affecting ones
arm, leg, or eye; and the failure to “cut-off” that which is causing wrong
action has eternal consequences. Notice that hand and foot explicate sin of
physical action whereas the eye speaks of the mind. In effect, what we do with
our physical and mental actions, right now, matters. But, why does it matter?
In the
beginning, God creates, and “saw everything that he had made, and behold, it
was very good.”[14] God is
to be glorified in and by the goodness of his creation. Sin is the undoing of
God’s goodness that he implemented at creation; it wages war against everything
God loves and initiated in the beginning. God’s purpose for humanity is
affronted in the presence of sin. Sin distorts the best of life, which God had
always intended for humanity. One cannot be in the presence of sin and live the
most genuine human existence—it corrupts God’s image in each of his creations. The
Bible uses numerous images to speak of sin (I will only list a few):
·
Missing the mark (Jas 4:17; Rom 3:23)
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Going astray (Isa 53:6)
·
Rebellion (1 Sam 15:23)
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Idolatry (Col 3:5-6)
·
Lawlessness (1 Jn 3:4)
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Death (Rom 5:12; 6:23; Eph 2:1; Jas 1:15)
·
Defiling (Mt 15:17-20)
·
Enslaving (Jn 8:34)
·
Blindness (Jn 12:39-40)
·
Hard-Heartedness (Isa 6:10)
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Stiff-Necked (Ex. 33:5)
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Injustice (Mic 2:1-3)
·
Fear (Rom 8:15; 2 Tim 1:7)
In
any case, it is certain that sin is a serious and treasonous act against the
God who calls his people to holiness,[15]
but I wonder how many people, realistically, who claim to serve and love Jesus
wholeheartedly—but are caught up in a sinful lifestyle—genuinely desire their
lifestyle? My experience is that people and sin do not mix well. I have failed
to meet anyone who steps through the church doors and desires to be a terrible
person—hurting others and themselves with sin. Most people—even
non-Christians—often recognize their sinfulness (although they may call it
something else) and the negative effects it has on their lives. Why do we, or
other Christians, continue to make the same mistakes even though we desire so
badly to live correctly?
Sin
is strong, but God is stronger.[16]
The Christian is not only battling spiritual warfare,[17]
but also genetic dispositions and brain structures that have been formulated
through a number of experiences over several years. Science reveals that the
brain is malleable—both the anatomical structures and physiological
functions—and is shaped through learning and experience from birth to death.[18]
Through these experiences the brain creates new pathways, often to accommodate
less processing time for regular motions. For example, when driving a car, less
process time is needed when driving on a familiar road. Sometimes, I can drive
from one place to another and have no memory of the details of that trip—my
mind can be elsewhere, but I drive safely to my destination. My brain has created
a pathway making it easier for this monotonous task to be done without much brainpower.
For others, like porn-addicts, their nervous system has been flooded with happy
chemicals that tell them their experience is pleasurable—therefore those
sensors run rampant desiring that “high” once more. The new pathways provide
the easier way for the next encounter—this cycle continues until the pathway is
deep-rooted and difficult to change. As humans, we formulate pathways much like
this in regards to sin. Some of these pathways were formulated over five, ten,
fifteen, or maybe twenty years. Therefore, it is often disheartening when a
pastor stands before his or her congregation and directs them to “stop sinning!”
as if the complexity of the mind is solved in his or her two-word riddle. This person
is asking that years of trauma, patterns (neural pathways), and hurts be recreated
immediately (this is the hope through the power of Jesus and his authority, but
most often not the case). This is not how physicians treat traumatized people. For
example, alcoholics are not treated in this fashion, but rather they are given
help through a twelve-step program or the likes. Physicians and counselors know
it is insane to think anyone could unravel years of pain or genetic dispositions
towards alcohol in just one moment. So why don’t churches deal with sin in the
same manner?
Undoing
and changing is not a task to be done over night. Instead, this is a process
that could take several years—decisively making good choices to reshape and
pattern your pathways in a new way. In fact, this is Paul’s encouragement to
the church at Rome, “Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by
the renewal of your mind.”[19]
Proverbs 9 interestingly speaks of both wisdom (Prv 9:1-6) and folly (Prv
9:12-18) as an invitation to a feast. Wisdom “builds her house” and folly sits
at her brothel hoping to entice a passerby. Wisdom offers “meat” and “wine”
(true nourishment) whereas folly can only offer “stolen bread” and “water.” Wisdom
leads to life and folly to death. Wisdom and folly both send invitations to
their feasts, and it is the choice of the individual to accept one or the
other. Daily we make choices that shape and provide patterns for how we think,
believe, feel, and act in the world. What we do really matters, but the old-fashioned,
“turn or burn” just isn’t cutting it. Discipleship that aids developing new learned
experiences, and overcoming daily challenges, are needed more than ever.
Fathers and mothers[20]
are needed, not just more sermons. If we are to take sin seriously we must be
invested in those who need freedom. Just as sin is not an individual endeavor
so to holiness requires the help of the whole community. We must maintain the
serious call to abandon sin and to live holy by understanding the inner
workings of sin and the human being. There can be no room for frustration by
the church in the process of redemption and holiness. Lastly, the hope is that
the church would be a beautiful bride for her groom, but to achieve this goal
we must take sin seriously and learn to defeat it practically.

When it comes to sin God is not mad at you! God is a Father and He is not angry at you. Grieved? Maybe. Somewhat disappointed? Possibly. But not angry! We can abide in Christ’s love in spite of all our failures or things we do or don’t do. I use to be a member of the “White Knuckle Club” of which it seemed I was the founder and president thereof;
ReplyDeletePerhaps you will recognize the following statements. “Tomorrow I am going to do better,” “I promise that I will read the bible more, pray and fast more” I held on to this type of sin management till my knuckles turned white. I never succeeded and if I did gain any ground, all was lost for naught. So how does one cancel his or her membership in the “White Knuckle Club?” In order to cancel our membership we must freely admit, “God I can’t do this.” When we open ourselves to Him and abide in Him, His love can and does flow through us to others without religious games or pretending. It does take time and several exposures to God's love might be required. Freedom, grace and destiny give us the ability to abide rather than repeatedly become a member of one White Knuckle Club after another. We must have a teachable spirit! In whatever we do, we do for God’s glory. We live our life (work, home, school and social) so that the Father and our Lord Jesus Christ becomes our audience of one. Failure has lost its power over us. Of coarse we are going to fail, but Father has already planned for quite a few of these failures so that we are not caught in the snare of unbroken success. Failures are part of our learning and maturing process. So, stop striving and learn to abide!